When it comes to buying baby gifts I can honestly say I know a lot about the subject. Being the mom of 4 has showed me a whole lot,and if you are look to buy a baby gift for that mom to be there is one gift that you can never go wrong with diapers. Diapers and wipes were the best gifts I ever received, you can never have enough of both. The best thing to do if you a going to give diapers as a gift is to give it in different sizes if possible. The best gift is onesies and botties. I would reframe from giving to much clothes for the simple fact that the baby will outgrow them quickly. There is only so much clothes a baby is going to wear. Then you have those little gifts like safety equipment, bottles, bibs, etc... A new mom will appreciate any gift you give, but if you really truly not sure then ask the new mom would she wants and needs.